đ§ What It Is
Unless youâve been completely off the grid for the past decade, youâve heard about meditation. What was once considered quirky or reserved for mystics has gone mainstreamâand for good reason. Meditation isnât about emptying your mind or sitting cross-legged on a mountaintop. Itâs about training your brain to observe your thoughts without judgment, creating a sense of calm, clarity, and focus.
Think of it as a workout for your mind, strengthening your ability to respond to lifeâs curveballs with intention rather than reaction. Rooted in ancient traditions, meditation has skyrocketed in popularity thanks to its proven benefits for reducing stress, boosting focus, and enhancing overall well-being. Best of all? You donât need hours of free time or prior experienceâjust a few minutes a day can make a noticeable difference.
đŹ What the Science Says
Structural Brain Changes: MRI studies show that consistent meditation increases gray matter in regions responsible for learning, memory, and emotional regulation.š
Reduced Stress Response: Meditation decreases activity in the amygdalaâthe brainâs stress centerâhelping to lower emotional reactivity and improve resilience.²
Lower Cortisol Levels: Regular practice has been shown to reduce cortisol, the hormone associated with stress, promoting a calmer and healthier state of mind.Âł
Enhanced Focus: Meditation strengthens attention span and improves the ability to stay present, even in high-stress situations.â´
đŻ How to Get Started
Pick a Time:Choose a consistent time each dayâmorning, lunch break, or before bedâto make it a habit. Set a daily reminder on your phone.
Start meditating:Simply find a quiet spot, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. Let your thoughts come and go without judgment, returning your attention to each inhale and exhale.
Start Small:Begin with 3-5 minutes and gradually increase the duration as you become more comfortable.
Use a Guide:Try meditation apps like Headspace (my favorite), Calm, or Insight Timer.
â
Simple Meditation Practices
There are many different flavors of meditation. Here are some to consider:
Body Scan (my favorite):Mentally scan your body from head to toe, noticing any tension and consciously relaxing each area.
Mantra Meditation:Repeat a word or phrase silently (like âpeaceâ or âomâ) to anchor your focus.
Mindful Breathing:Focus entirely on your breath, counting each inhale and exhale to maintain attention.
Gratitude Practice:Reflect on three things youâre grateful for as a way to shift into a positive mindset.
Loving-Kindness Meditation:Visualize sending love and goodwill to yourself and others, promoting compassion.
đ What I Do
Meditation does not come easily but I was able to meditate every day for 3 years and through that time I learned a lot. It "softened the edges" of day-to-day stressors, it helped me feel more at peace, and it gave me much more insight into my emotions and regulation thereof. I also incorporated a few different strategies I learned over the years into one I use regularly with each meditation: S.E.I.
S.E.I. stands for Senses, Emotion, and Intention. Starting with Senses, I mentally run through each oneâwhat am I hearing, feeling, smelling, tasting, and seeing right now? Then, I check in on Emotionâtaking a moment to acknowledge whatever Iâm feeling at that moment. Finally, I set a small intention for this moment of mindfulnessâwhether itâs to relax, maintain or change this state, or simply wind down.
Live well,
Brian
Reference
HĂślzel, B. K., et al. (2011). Mindfulness practice leads to increases in regional brain gray matter density. Psychiatry Research: Neuroimaging, 191(1), 36-43.
Taren, A. A., et al. (2013). Mindfulness meditation training alters stress-related amygdala resting state functional connectivity: A randomized controlled trial. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 8(1), 34-41.
Pascoe, M. C., et al. (2017). Mindfulness meditation and cortisol: A meta-analysis. Health Psychology Review, 11(3), 264-284.
Lutz, A., et al. (2008). Attention regulation and monitoring in meditation. Trends in Cognitive Sciences, 12(4), 163-169.
Having lurched through the starting-stopping-restarting cycle of establishing a meditation practice over the last 10 years, I have come to the strong opinion that too little is made of the thoughts that distract us while meditating. For anyone who has not meditated before and is thinking of establishing a practice, know this: our brains are designed to think! Initiating a meditation practice causes us to suddenly become aware of how many thoughts we have zooming through our heads at any given time. The key to establishing a meditation practice is to stay with itâŚto keep coming back from the thoughts, with patience, self compassion, and humor. You will never stop thinking while meditating! But if you can take a step back from the thoughts, even for a moment, and return to whatever you are focusing on (e.g., inhaling and exhaling), you will establish new neural pathways that will lead to the positive effects Brian list in this post. But it wonât come right away, and it wonât come suddenly; itâs a gradual process that yields tremendous fruit if you can just⌠Stay.With.It.